Slapping Toys & Ticklers

About Spanking Toys and Ticklers

Spanking as a part of sexual relations seems completely natural for some people, while it might be associated with abuse for others. It all lies deep in the psychology of each person's life experience. The good news is that if you are a lover, you don’t have to convert people you know to it or defend your preferences before them.

But with your spouse, it is a completely different situation. No matter whether you wanna spank them or want to be spanked, make sure you both share mutual agreement about your feelings. We’ll explain how to come to an understanding and really enjoy this little game.

What is Spanking?

Spanking during sexual intercourse or erotic spanking is the deliberate act of hitting your sex partner with your bare hands or with the aid of spanking instruments and fetish sex toys to elevate sexual pleasure for one or both partners. BDSM spanking is especially cherished and enjoyed by mates who derive sexual pleasure from the preface of pain. Spanking appears hurtful and extreme at first sight but you could be the sexual inspiration that sex life has been missing. It is mostly carried out during role play.

Why Do People Like To Be Spanked?

Adult spanking sounds uncomfortable, and it gets even more uncomfortable when you realize that some people, especially some women actually love a good spanking. Here’s why:

Dominance is Sexy

Dominance during sex amplifies sexual drive and penetration. It’s a known fact; power drives women wild. A man in a position of power is the desire of most women. During sex, heightened levels of sexual pleasure begin once the man presumes his role of dominance. Asserting your authority as a man during sex shows to the woman that the man knows what he wants and is going all out to get it. This makes a woman mildly submissive to domination.

It adds a different spice! It is normal to get bored with the repetitive implementation of the same action. Just as kids get tired of their old toys, so do women get bored and tired of carrying out the same sexual routine and styles frequently without the introduction of something new or exciting. Spanking adds an extra spice by bringing about diversification from the standard sexual routine.

It Brings About Elevated Intimacy

Spanking brings about freshly ignited sensations that come with trying a different experience from the norm. This builds intimacy and carts you both to a whole new world bonding you in ways you never expected. Agreeing to introduce spanking to your sex life is an intimate moment built. Carrying out the act together amplifies the bonding.

It brings about a good feel

Many women have testified to feeling really good when they get a good spanking! A certain stimulation is fired up when a woman gets spanked, this triggers the Dopamine Receptors into motion bringing about sexual pleasure, which is an exciting moment for both spouses.

Spanking Benefits

Erotic spanking boosts the rate of endorphin within the body. It is most prized and enjoyed during sexual intercourse or as an act during BDSM. Spanking can be utilized in helping pleasurable sensations and is often an extra drive to achieve orgasm. Besides giving a great feeling, it gives room for role-playing and trading up sex roles.

How To Give A Good Spanking

It is important that your spanking technique delivers pleasure and not pain during sexual activity. Hence, you must learn how to spank correctly. Here are tips on how to give a proper spanking:

Spanking Techniques

Spanking techniques are not equal and produce different results. It is important for partners to examine their options in this area, to know which of the methods works effectively for them and gives them the pleasure they crave for. 

Spanking techniques can easily be rotated and are influenced by the various shapes the hand make, power and speed of the strikes. For instance, hand cupping during sex results in a slow intense sound rather than the sharp sensation that comes with hitting the buttocks with a smooth palm.

Switching in and out of stroking and swatting, or tightly holding on the buttocks at the end of every stroke are really nice ways to add that extra sexual connection and spice.

Spanking Positions

Spanking positions have an influence on sexual feelings during sex. Choosing and maintaining the right positions are important. These positions include:

Over the lap at the edge of a couch or bed position: In this placement, one partner sits on the edge of a couch or bed. The other lies facing downwards across their lap, with their buttocks well placed for a proper spanking. The best tools to use here are short paddles.

Hands and knees position: Just as the name implies, one partner is stationed on her hand and knees on the bed or floor. This is a suitable position for sex and spanking action due to its comfort. Any of the instruments can be used.

The Scissor position: The positioning for the scissor is in similitude to the over the lap, with the only exception being the spanker positions their leg over the receiver's legs.

Over the lap at the centre of a bed position: In this position, the spanker sits on the bed with legs outstretched while the receiver lies across their laps.

Standing arm around waist position: The receiver is positioned facing the spanker; they bend forward while wrapping her arms around his waist.

Standing over leg position: The spanker places one of his legs on a stool or any other slightly elevated platform while the receiver faces them and bends over the outstretched thigh.

Standing ankle grab: The receiver stays in a standing position, bent over with her hands wrapped around their ankles. This is the standard position taken when punishing offenders. It extends the buttocks until it becomes more penetrable.

Standing with hands down: The receiver stays in a standing position, bent over, with hands positioned on a couch or bed. It encourages the use of more lengthy and intense spanking tools.

Splitting: The spanker sits legs crossed in the centre of a bed with a supporting cast of pillows. The receiver lies on her stomach with her legs on her partner’s leg.

Kneeling position: The receiver stays positioned with knees on the floor or bed, with the head likely placed over. This position is very suitable for belts, straps, and whips.

Janeen Kneeling position: The receiver stays positioned with knees on a chair seat with her arms clinging to the back. Any spanking tool can be used here.

Over the back or arm of a chair or couch position: This is the most comfortable position for the receiver getting spanked and it promotes the utilization of whips or other tools.

The Tuck: The receiver faces down and stays low in a crouched position with their knees underneath her. This makes the bones visible hence, the need to use flexible leather tools.

Diaper: The receiver lies on her back at the edge of a bed while the spanker stands on the floor and leaves the receiver's legs hanging in the air. The buttock is entirely revealed as is all of their private organs. Short spanking paddles are the best tools here.

Spanking Tools

The first tool for spanking is your hands, but if you feel adventurous and feel the desire to do more. 

Here are other tools you can use:

Paddles

They are available in different materials like leather, plastic, metal, or even wood. They provide a more intense slap sound and action compared to hands and offers varying levels of sensations.

Floggers

They contain many lengthy tails attached to a handle that can be used on the back, buttocks or thighs.

Whips

Whips possess a slim tip that elevates the levels of penetrating sensation during the spanking. The best whips guarantee extreme feelings.

Ticklers

They are sensation generating tools, normally attached to the peak of lengthy rods to cover long distances. They could be made from feathers or rubber strands.

Slappers

They are designed to bring about a tickling sensation. Slappers sound more painful than they feel.

Riding Crops

They are generally equipped with a long handle which makes them easy and user friendly. They bring about a lot of stinging.

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